10
Sep

OpEd: Religion Shouldn’t Trump Civil Rights

Update news9/17/2007

I am saddened and angered to learn that my favorite Jersey Shore vacation spot, Ocean Grove, NJ, will not allow two of its residents to hold a civil union ceremony at the Boardwalk Pavilion. Because the town is actually a private association, The Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association, which also happens to be a United Methodist organization, it is claiming to be covered under “Freedom of Religion” to discriminate against a couple wanting to rent the pavilion for a ritual now recognized by the state of New Jersey.Whether or not this discrimination is legal, I am astounded that the association would take such a divisive route. When I first regularly started visiting Ocean Grove in the early 1990s, many of the homes were boarded up and many off the shops were out of business. Thanks in large part to the gay community, Ocean Grove has been rebuilt and has a thriving Main Avenue and real estate market. Is the association so narrow-minded that it will benefit from the contributions of these neighbors, but hide behind the Bible to avoid renting space to them?

While I, of course, support the Constitution without reservation, and I agree that private religious organizations have the right to practice their faith, I am disappointed that Ocean Grove would take the stand that civil unions are contrary to their faith.

As a member of the United Methodist Church, I am fully aware that the issue of same sex marriage is one on which the church does not agree. My United Methodist congregation believes that we are all God’s children and that God wants us to live in love and in community whether that is within a gay or straight relationship. We had considered Ocean Grove an ideal space for our November church retreat. After this weekend, it was an easy decision to rule them out.

It would seem that the Boardwalk Pavilion is the property of a religious organization, and the association has the right to rent space at its discretion. Certainly, their freedom of religion should be protected. They should be aware however that exercising (some might say “abusing”) their religious “right” in this way creates an environment where people like me will not want to participate in their programs. I will no longer spend my time or money on their beach or in their churches. My United Methodist congregation will not visit this United Methodist town because we are offended by their actions. I hope and pray that the Camp Meeting Association will grow in its understanding of community and commitment.

“Whatever some people believe the Bible seems to say about homosexuality, they must not use that belief to deny homosexuals their basic civil rights. To discriminate against sexual or gender minorities is unjust and un-American.”www.soulforce.org

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09
Aug

Satriale’s says: You Want a Piece of Me?

An allegedly autographed photo from the cast of The Sopranos could set you back $65 on ebay, but what about something more… durable? Something that literally helped set the scene for the hit tv show?

How about bricks from the facade of the fictional Satriale’s Pork Store?

That’s right - the owner of the building is tearing it down next month and, in the face of complaints about demolishing the shrine to all that is unholy, he is selling the bricks for $25 to $50.

The bricks will come with a serial number and certificate of authentication.

I wonder whatever happened to the Satriale’s Pork Store sign that hung out front.

And, in case you’re wondering: What else but condominiums (named The Soprano) will be built on the site.

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03
Aug

Are Jersey Bridges on the Verge of Collapse?

Updated Aug. 6, 2007

So, the recent collapse of the I-35W bridge in Minneapolis, MN, has given Jerseyites much to think about and, well, to fear — as if there wasn’t enough already.

Most of us commute over at least one bridge twice a day, sometimes more. If you thought being in such a tri-state metropolitan area might mean greater vigilance toward our infrastructure than MN (ahem, steam pipe explosion anyone?), think again. In fact, according to the U.S. Department of Transportation’s Federal Highway Administration, 1,503 of our 6,420 bridges are “functionally obsolete” and another 838 are “structurally deficient”. More than 100 of these bridges are in Bergen County, and another 100 are in Essex. The most recent data includes inspections through December 2006.

Six of the eight bridges that our state deemed “structurally deficient” are built in the same style as the bridge in Minneapolis. But that doesn’t mean we should jump to conclusions and start freaking out. We should, however, be urging some emergency inspections, which Gov. Corzine did yesterday. He recently ordered New Jersey Department of Transportation to prepare an inventory describing the safety status of all bridges in the state within 45 days. But we still need more than $1 billion dollars to get the actual work done.

According to The Star Ledger:

“Four of the eight are state bridges: two spans on Route 139 in Jersey City near the approach to the Holland Tunnel, the Pulaski Skyway and the bridge that carries the Route 1&9 truck lanes over the Hackensack River. One of the Route 139 spans is being rebuilt now, and the DOT plans spend [sic] $10 million a year over the next 10 years rehabilitating the Pulaski Skyway, [state Transportation Commissioner Kris] Kolluri said. The Skyway work will begin this year.

The other four steel deck truss spans are county bridges - two owned by Hudson County and one each by Somerset and Sussex. Two of those are not considered deficient and one only barely qualifies for the designation.”

I can’t help but wonder who exactly deemed the one bridge as “barely” qualifying as structurally deficient. No source is quoted. We could assume the fact comes from Kolluri, but I have never found it safe to assume, especially when politicians and such are involved.

Of course, part of the concern is that the causes of collapses can be quite subtle, such as corrosion, age, metal fatigue, or something hidden, and a collapse could be really unexpected as the one in Minneapolis appears to have been.

My concern is, just how bad does a bridge have to be before Gov. Corzine decides it has to be shut down for urgent repair? How big is the wiggle room there? I mean, are we driving on structurally deficient bridges that can remain that way with a few patches for another decade? Another year? Another month?

So, tell us:

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01
Aug

Check This Out: Consider The Source

Do you know your trusted websites as well as you think you do?

Updated 8/2/2007
When you want information about a subject — whether it be about syphilis or potential nuclear war in Iran — odds are you google it and click on the first link to pop up. Or you go to any number of already familiar sites — CNN, FOX, NJ.com, etc. But how do you know you’re getting the best information? How do you even determine what “best” is?

considerthesourcecover.jpgWell, James Broderick and Darren Miller have taken on this guessing game in their new book, Consider the Source: A Critical Guide to 100 Prominent News and Information Sites on the Web. In it — which you can buy and then discuss with the authors Wednesday, August 1, at their book signing at the Barnes & Noble in the Clifton Commons at 7:30PM— they assess 100 sites, and not just news sites. They look at AARP’s and National Geographic’s as well, and were sometimes surprised themselves by what they found.

And don’t start rolling your eyes — I know, we should all be glad you read news online, and now we’re asking you to read a book? But Broderick promised me this is not an eye-glazer. Think of it as a desktop tour guide to a city you thought you knew.

Broderick and Miller, who met at New Jersey City University where Broderick is a journalism professor and Miller was a student, came up with the idea for Consider the Source when confronting the very same questions we all do about not just what media to rely on, but how to tell the difference when there are overwhelming options online. Now we have access to international newspapers, political blogs, and opinion blogs belonging to authors and non-profits. The internet’s speed and the rapid growth of accessibility to these other sites can make for a dizzying — and sometimes fruitless — quest. So Broderick and Miller devised six criteria for rating a site:

    Credibility (what’s their truth-telling track record? do they break significant news, and do they get their facts right?)
    Reporting Protocol (do they do their own reporting? fact-checking? what’s the editing like?)
    Speed (do they break news before anybody else?)
    Correction policies (do the bury their mistakes?)
    Quality of Writing (is it a site that takes pride in not just what, but how they write?)
    Bias/Objectivity (does a site masquerade as unbiased and neutral when it isn’t? And if there’s a bias, in which direction does it lean?)

authorsatworkvertical.jpgYou’ll have to check out the book to see how your favorite sites rated, but if you’ve learned anything so far, your probably now thinking, “Ok, but why should I trust Broderick and Miller?”

Well, aside from their experience as journalists, they’re both Jerseyites! Broderick is a transplant-turned-passionate Jersey fan, and Miller is a Jersey native who somehow finds himself living in North Carolina. We won’t hold that against him, though, since Broderick’s devotion to Jersey culture more than makes up for it. In fact, Broderick has written a book, Paging New Jersey, about Jersey pop culture. So, of course, we had to ask him about five places in our dear garden state that he just can’t live without.

    1. The Pine Barrens - for their history & mystery. A great place to go camping. And, yes, he says, the Jersey Devil does exist.
    2. Yogi Berra Museum & Learning Center - for baseball enthusiasts, this is a must. Located on the campus of Montclair State
    3. Newark Public Library - a beautiful building
    4. Walt Whitman Cultural Center in Camden — hosts poetry readings, slams, and other literary events
    5. Rutt’s Hut - yes! Broderick says their hot dogs, aka rippers, are “unbelievable!” and they make their own mustard and relish!
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31
Jul

Event: A Book Signing That Could Change Your News Consumption

More and more of you are getting some, if not most, of your news from online media, but have you ever wondered how to rate your favorite sites? Want a new approach to reviewing them, or want to find some new sites that may surprise you with their thoroughness or approach (maybe some you never considered before)?

Journalists James Broderick and Darren Miller have written a book called, “Consider The Source”, which examines and rates 100 top news and information sites, approaching thorny subjects such as balance, as well as the sites’ use of the technology available to online media.

Come back here soon for an interview with this Jersey duo (Broderick is still based here and Miller is originally from Jersey City). In the meantime, mark your calendar:

MEET THE AUTHORS at the Barnes & Noble on Rte. 3 East in Clifton, (the Clifton Commons), at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, August 1. Jim and Darren will talk about how and why the project originated, discuss the book itself, answer any questions, and sign copies for anyone interested.

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30
Jul

Click This: A Guide to Jersey Beaches

Ok, so maybe you consider yourself a regular to all things “down the shore”, or maybe you’re living in the city and hate the pretentiousness of the Hamptons and the flith of Coney Island and you’re wondering if there are any beaches that are nearby and worth the trip. Either way, today’s Click This! will interest you. Coming by way of NJ Monthly magazine, this handy, downloadable guide (the link is to a pdf file) gives you the information you need before you decide where to go.

How much is parking in Ocean Grove? Is there a beach fee? This “Ultimate Beach Chart” has all the answers.

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26
Jul

Jersey Waitress Rides Again…

jerseywaitress.pngStupid Things Customers Say

Do I have to tip you?

No, sir. This is actually just a hobby of mine. I love staying up until the wee hours of the morning getting beer sloshed onto my shirts and listening to poorly sung karaoke music just so that I might have the pleasure of saving your lazy ass a trip from your table to the bar – located about 4 feet away. It’s okay. You keep your quarter.

I don’t want the check. I just want to know how much I owe you.

Guess what, genius… all that information is found right on the CHECK. If you think I know how much every menu item costs with tax, you clearly overestimate my math skills. Furthermore, if you’re going to irritate me and then trust me to tell you how much your bill came to without proof – you’re going to get seriously overcharged for that decaf tea you ordered.

Should I get the Turkey Club or the Filet Mignon? Continue reading ‘Jersey Waitress Rides Again…’

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21
Jul

Munchmobile Slideshow

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Check out the Star Ledger’s article here.

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11
Jul

Click This: More Wind

Today’s New York Times has this article about Michael Mercurio, the “latter-day environmental knight errant” from Long Beach Island who has taken an innovative approach to energy use but has become a target by future-fearing neighbors as a result.

This article includes a photo of Mercurio’s home and the windmill, making it today’s “Click This”. It’s far less obtrusive than even I had pictured it.

Also, the article quotes the lawsuit Mercurio’s neighbors filed which says,

“…in a 14-mile-per-hour wind, the three fiberglass blades produce noise greater than 50 decibels, the rough equivalent of light traffic or a noisy refrigerator.”

Oh no - they might hear a noisy fridge or… *gasp*…. light traffic? I understand people want their peace and quiet but, frankly, their short-sightedness is appalling. Plus, in their carefully-sculpted language, they make you think 50 decibels would have you walking around with your fingers glued inside your eats. So, just to give you a larger reference point, according to this site:

Alarm Clock (1 Meter), Hair Dryer 80 decibels
Noisy Restaurant, Business Office 70 decibels
Air Conditioning Unit, Conversational Speech 60 decibels
Light Traffic (50 Meter), Average Home 50 decibels
Living Room, Quiet Office 40 decibels
Library, Soft Whisper (5 Meter) 30 decibels

Careful, they may ban public conversations next — 60 decibels?!? Do they think we’re living in Newark Airport?!!?

What’s your thought on the topic? Do you want to tell Mercurio where to stick his windmill, or do you want to ask him how to install one in your backyard?

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09
Jul

Click This: unCivil Unions

Look! Creating a “civil union” category for same-sex couples who would like to marry allows companies to treat them as if they’re not married at all and deny them benefits! What a shock!

The United Parcel Service has indeed refused health benefits to a same-sex couple in Toms River, NJ, even though they offer coverage for married gay couples in Massachusetts.

This is exactly the kind of problem that arises when there is no federal law or constitutional amendment that prohibits discrimination based on sexual preference.

Civil unions create a second class citizenry for gays as this piece from Blue Jersey shows - so click it and post your comments.

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